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The difference between fantasy and reality
This is an an excellent documentary. I write with 25 years of experience using the internet and using sites such as the one featured in this documentary as well as very similar sites that exist. Now first and foremost I never had any intentions of committing a crime nor did I. Certainly murder was never in play, however extreme BDSM was, and that it be agreeable between both parties. In that time period, I have dealt with over 1000 people, and out of it, I met maybe 100 and out of that 2 permanent relationships transpired . So essentially 99.999 percent of anyone I ever dealt with was fake and it was just a fantasy. Essentially the two permanent relationships never lasted because the conditions were too extreme, with me implementing about a tenth of what was agreed too. So this notion that what happens on the dark web in the form of fetishism and sexuality has anything to do with actual real life or real actions is beyond ridiculous.
There is talk in the film of this being about looking at sex as shameful, and there is some truth in that, there is a shame that comes at least from either side involving anything that involves sexual fetishism. In the end I can see this man losing his position as a police officer but as far as actual jail time, considering that the majority of anyone on these sites is purely fantasizing is beyond preponderance.